Collin Marsh’s family is facing another devastating goodbye after a car accident left him with injuries he could not survive. But even as his loved ones prepare to lose him, Collin’s decision to become an organ donor has given them something to hold on to. They say his final gift could help save other lives, offering a small measure of comfort during a time that has brought their family more pain than words can explain.
According to his family’s account, Collin was involved in a serious car accident last Wednesday after suffering a medical episode while driving. The injuries he sustained were unsurvivable, and he was later declared brain dead. His body is currently being maintained on life support while arrangements for organ donation are coordinated.
For his relatives, the news has brought back painful memories of two earlier losses. The family previously lost their daughter, Kylie, on February 27, 2017. Then, on June 2, 2020, they suffered another heartbreaking loss when their son, Landon, died. Now, they are preparing to say goodbye to Collin as well.
Three children lost over the course of several years is a reality no family should have to face. Their daughter Mickele, who has been described as the person holding the family together through years of grief, is now facing life without the siblings she grew up with. Kylie, Landon and Collin were all part of her family, and each loss has left another painful absence.
Those who knew Collin remember him for his gentle nature. A relative described him as having the “sweetest, softest heart.” It was a short description, but one that says a great deal about how he was loved. His family has not shared further details about his age, education, career or personal interests, but their words make clear how much he meant to them.
His decision to become an organ donor has taken on an especially personal meaning. While his family cannot change what happened, they find some comfort in knowing that his donation may give other people another chance at life. The medical team is coordinating the process, although the family has not confirmed which organs will be suitable or when the donation will be completed.
For the family, however, the pain goes beyond the accident and the difficult decisions ahead. They are also facing the financial burden of arranging another child’s funeral. Their relative has appealed to the public for help, asking people to contribute what they can or share the family’s story so it can reach others willing to offer support.
The family cannot bring back Kylie or Landon, and they cannot change what happened to Collin. But they are hoping people will stand with them as they face another funeral and another painful goodbye. Collin’s decision to become an organ donor may also give other families a chance to hold on to someone they love. Those are the memories and the final gift his relatives are now left to carry.